Once the narcissist believes you are settled and comfortable and the relationship is secure, example you become married, have children or if in business, you have shared debt with them or handed over money, they slowly reveal their true character.
They bluntly have no regard for your opinions, ideas or feedback any more. They enjoy ridiculing you in front of people, thinking this makes them look superior. Yelling you down when you disagree with their opinions until you just don’t give feedback anymore. It is always your fault and you will never, ever hear them apologise even when they have been proven to be incorrect.
Any accomplishments or achievements will be ignored and will tell you that the only reason you are successful is because of them. Everything becomes about them and their constant need for admiration and attention becomes draining.
You seem to be constantly tired, sad or depressed when you are around them or thinking about them. You don’t recognise the person you have become anymore, your dreams and hopes have long gone and the days just seem to all be the same. You no longer remember why you got involved with them in the first place.
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